Pranshu's Prolific Pen

 Hello November. Please be good

  Shallowness of Friendships-  Gradually, you begin to realize how shallow some friendships can be. These are the relationships where people don’t genuinely care about your well-being and are only present when it benefits them. Over time, it becomes clear who truly values you and who is merely superficial in their connection. Recognizing this is painful, but it also teaches an important lesson: it is better to have a few sincere friends than many who only pretend to care. Gradually, you realize how shallow some friendships are, as they don't really care about you.

One should always keep one's back strong, for life often tests us in ways we do not expect. Praise and admiration may come from those we trust, but betrayal can strike just as quietly, from behind. By staying strong, vigilant, and resilient, we prepare ourselves to face both support and deceit with equal composure. It is not about mistrusting everyone, but about understanding that strength, both inner and outer, is the shield that allows us to navigate the unpredictable paths of life. One should always keep one's back strong, because both praise and betrayal come from behind. पीठ हमेशा मजबूत रखनी चाहिए क्यूँकि शाबाशी और धोखा दोनों पीछे से ही मिलते हैं..!

 The phrase “sometimes life comes in full circle” means that situations, experiences, or relationships often return to their starting point,  but with a new perspective or understanding. In other words, events from the past may repeat or reappear in our lives, showing us how much we’ve grown or changed. For example, someone might return to their hometown after many years, work in the same place where they once struggled, or reconnect with people from their past but now with more wisdom and maturity. It means life has a way of bringing us back to where we began, but as different, more experienced individuals.

 There is a word called ulterior motive, and that is always difficult to understand. Human nature is complex, and people often have hidden intentions behind their words and actions. At times, it becomes difficult to understand the real motives of others, as what they show on the surface may not reflect what they truly think or want. Some individuals might act kindly or supportively for personal gain, while others may disguise selfish motives behind a mask of friendship or goodwill. Therefore, it is important to be observant, patient, and cautious when dealing with people. Trust should be built gradually, based on consistent behavior rather than mere appearances or promises. Being careful not only protects us from deceit but also helps us maintain healthy and genuine relationships. It is true that - "It is sometimes difficult to understand the ulterior motive of human beings, so we should be careful."

 If we do not handle ourselves well, it will be difficult to handle the world.  अगर हम खुद को ठीक से नहीं संभाल पाए, तो दुनिया को संभालना मुश्किल हो जाएगा।